<em>The latest entry in my <a title=”The 30-Day Song Challenge — Words and Beats” href=”http://tumblring.net/30-songs-in-30-days-list-for-your-tumblr/”>30 Day Song Challenge</a> weekly project.</em>
<strong>Song Challenge Week 23 — A Song You Want Played At Your Wedding</strong>
<strong><em>”Witness to Your Life,” Lori McKenna</em>
Have you ever noticed that I really like hedging on these things? I mean, like, almost every single one I start by saying how there’s not really a real answer, but I’ll provide some sort of context in order to give some sort of response. How many times have I just said, “It’s this”?
So, anyway, a song to play at my wedding.
I had a wedding, once. The music was pretty traditional wedding-y music. I remember more the song that wasn’t played. Nicole really wanted to play Shania Twain’s “You’re Still The One” (we got married all of 13 months after our first date. But it was a long 13 months, I guess) but I was deadset that there would be no country music played at my wedding. Oh, sure, she wanted the pop version of the song, but, dang it, Shania Twain’s a country singer, and it’s not going to happen.
In the last few years, I’ve been to concerts by Lady Antebellum a couple of times, Sugarland a couple of times, Tim McGraw, Miranda Lambert, Blake Shelton, Trace Adkins, Sara Evans, etc. etc. etc. But it was something then I wasn’t willing to budge on.
If I had it to do over again, I might handle it differently.
If I had it to do over again, I would handle a lot of things differently.
I’ve thought a few times since then I was going to have another wedding. There was the time we were going to have a Braveheart wedding at an outdoor mall. Or the time I was going to perform the service.
My favorite idea is still the one where I send out invitations asking people what they want to do in the wedding so that nobody was offended. The problem with that one is that it requires someone else who also wants that wedding.
So, getting back to hedging, the song kind of depends on the wedding, you know? I don’t know that the same music would fit all those weddings.
But to pick something to honor the request: Lori McKenna’s “Witness To Your Life”
It starts with a wedding — “Someone was crying and the bells ring” — and is still one of the most beautiful promises of partnership I’ve ever heard — “YOu should never have to be alone, someone will always call you home…
“… and I will be that witness to your life.”